As we go through life, it’s easy to get caught up in the status quo. You start to believe that average is acceptable and settling is a norm that its, it’s OK to do the same. But that is also where I can tell you, that your focus is in the wrong place and as soon as you start to notice this happening, CHANGE is needed quick!

“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who are alive.” ~Howard Thurman

There are far too many people seeking happiness through the eyes of others. I am who I am because of each step, fall and goal I have achieved. To be honest, I’ve jumped from goal to goal with no real consistency on any of them. Goals are great, but without direction, you get lost.

So how do you become Who you are meant to be and find your story?

Truthfully? I am still figuring this out for myself, However I know this.

It starts with defining what is most important to you and focusing on it and eliminating the rest, plain and simple. Write down your goals, dreams, and as you do this envision what it would feel like to obtain them. Do not go writing a shopping list, it should be focused on top major things you really want.

Now, I said “Focus on what you need to do, not HOW to do it”. If you begin to focus on How, then you get all stressed and find excuses why you can’t and LOSE FOCUS on what’s important.

FOCUS First. Once you got your What, then begin your journey on discovering the steps and what you can do today, right now.

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Get it done. Be Fearless to the Pursuit of your Happiness. Yes, you might fall or fail at first, but know that failure is part of the process so Embrace it.

Remember this:

The person who falls and gets up always comes back stronger, wiser and better than before.

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